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Hire someone because they’re Mormon? Blech. Promote this site in a stake capacity? Blech, blech! |
Maybe its just me, but I am troubled to have the Church at any level endorse goods/services available in the market place. Personally I find it an inappropriate use of Church resources. How would this be different from allowing stake members the opportunity to just come right up to the pulpit and advertise their business endeavors? |
It’s not just you, Guy. That’s really inappropriate. |
Hmmm … honestly, it didn’t come across as horribly inappropriate in the meeting. Quite the opposite. It seemed pretty positive … there are a lot of different professionals in the NY, NY stake (photographers, artists, musicians, doctors, lawyers, etc. and etc.) and this seemed a way to encourage LDS people to see what services are available from within the local LDS community. It seems to be open to anyone and also points out that those who hire services should seek additional references. Maybe I’m missing something. I’m a bit surprised at the expressions of aversion. Then again, this is the first time I’ve seen anything like this in a church meeting. |
I should add that a very extended list of the various types of LDS professionals in the area was provided by the speaker – it was pretty surprising how long the list of professions and professional services was – and again, rather than promoting one person or one service, it seemed to be a way to create a database of the professional LDS talent that was around. I actually agreed with the point that was made by the speaker – if all other things are equal and you’re going to be hiring someone anyway – why not put that money in the pocket of a qualified LDS professional? That was the general thrust of the presentation given in the talk. |
danithew, I’m wary of this approach for a different reason. Sometimes in business and commerce, the need arises to take an adversarial position, e.g. to collect overdue accounts receivable or to compel contract compliance through legal means. It can be disruptive to a ward when that is going on among the members. Even when it is just a matter of hiring someone as an employee it can get complicated. Ward life is often enough of a circus without everybody being in everybody else’s business. This saddens me a little, because I used to think we ought to try to emulate the law of consecration. I’ve learned through sad experience that we still are nowhere near the goal. For now, I’ve found that I prefer doing business with gentiles. :-) |
Mark IV, I see your point. I wonder though if it has to be completely black and white or if there isn’t some kind of middle ground. Or maybe we need to try harder to believe that LDS people can provide the same high quality of service or product. Yes, over a lifetime in the church, any one person will have heard a lot of negative stories (who hasn’t) about problems that have arisen from LDS people doing business with other LDS people. Inevitably some personalities clash – someone will be dishonest, etc. and etc. Still, I have observed over time that a particular LDS professional can build up a positive reputation and it can be a very positive thing. For example, I’ve never heard anyone say that it is inappropriate to hire a piano teacher who is LDS. There are a lot of talented LDS musicians and it isn’t uncommon in a ward or stake (at least from what I’ve seen) for an LDS musician to teach kids in that same ward or stake how to play the piano. Why should we limit our inter-LDS business relationships to music lessons? It seems to me that there are many other areas where competent LDS people could help each other out and be compensated. I think it could be mutually beneficial to both the client and the customer, as long as both are well-informed and really know what they are looking for. Occasionally we may even learn that a world-renowned expert or professional exists who also happens to be LDS – and that this person’s services may be available to our benefit. Honestly, I see this website as a way to further inform, to provide and disseminate that kind of valuable information. Also, if a person is completely opposed to this sort of thing, they are free to ignore it. As far as I can tell, there is no constraining force obligating anyone to ever do business with another LDS person. So I don’t see a negative here. Maybe I’m too optimistic – but my overall gut instinct is that LDS people can be savvy enough if they are willing to make the effort. |
The real benefit of a site like this is having a starting point for hiring someone who has a better chance of being trustworthy than someone you just pick out of the yellow pages. We have been procrastinating a lot of work that needs to be done on our house simply because we know there are a lot of rogue traders out there and are worried about being ripped off or hiring someone who does a poor job. |
I agree with Mark IV particularly in areas where the Church is very small. There is so much inbreeding from a work perspective already amongst Mormons and I have seen it cause a lot of pain. However, it is nice to employ our fellow Saints when we can. I think it is a really complex issue… |
Devyn, I think that might be a good point – that in areas where church membership is “small”, that this kind of practice might be a problem. I believe we were told yesterday that there are now six meeting sites for LDS Church members in New York City. That might signify a sufficiently large and dispersed LDS population that this kind of activity wouldn’t be as problematic. I could see how it might be wiser not to have business relationships with people who are in your own ward – though even in that area I could see how there could be exceptions. |
That’s a perfect recipe for discord. You can de-activate half the stake if members mingle faith and business. Such a website would also provide opportunities for confidence tricksters. Bad move. The stake president should publicly disavow that endorsement to protect “members” from each other and the LDS Church from liability. |
I didn’t realize the extensive list of potential professional services (by LDS people) was listed at the website itself … I wonder if this is based on a specific list of names/professions of actual people in the stake. Here’s the list: accountant |
Let’s assume you hire a professional from this service, and they commit malpractice, say the lawyer for example. Do you think for one second that when the malpractice attorney who takes the case finds out one of the wealthiest Churches on the planet expressly recommended this service in one of its meetings, and by implication the lawyer who was hires, that the Church isn’t going to be listed as a defendant is that case? I think it is quite likely. |
And, while I don’t have a CHI, it would seem there is probably some provision in there about using Church resources for commercial gain. |
Guy Murray, I don’t have legal experience, at all – so I couldn’t say. You might be right that a lawyer could attempt to hold the church liable. |
#13 Guy: It reminds me of when I was in a married student ward with a lower-income demographic. The stake leadership noted that our ward was using more fast offerings than student families in adjacent wards (populated by students who actually owned trailers or condominiums, or rented much more expensive apartments), and that much of this expenditure was medical in nature. They determined (and we were told this over the pulpit) that we were simply foolish for not carrying adequate health insurance. Rather than realize that few in our ward could afford the premiums, they actually brought in an LDS insurance salesman to “instruct” a combined relief society and priesthood lesson—effectively giving said salesman a captive audience for a high-pressure sales pitch. Again, something that the leaders in SLC would surely have found entirely inappropriate. I would caution that just because a business owner is a member of your church (any church that you happen to belong to) doesn’t mean they are honest. Sadly, many LDS con artists have used this ploy against other LDS members. On the other hand, I completely understand the desure to use your means to support the businesses of those who share your values, or who are part of your community. I try to do the same thing, within my own sphere. I likewise avoid using my means to support the businesses of those who work against my community’s interests. Some would call this cliquish or clannish. I call it full participation in one’s community, and advancement of one’s own goals in society. |
Yes, it is true that those who share your values may be a better fit to do business with. And yes, we would all like to believe that church members are generally honest. On the other hand, as others have pointed out, church membership does not guarantee honesty. The problem is that (especially when accompanied with some kind of implicit endorsement) it gives some kind of assurance of honesty. For me, the issue is that stake members who use the site will be less on their gaurd than they would when hiring a “gentile.” Another problem with doing business with church members is that having something in common can make people expect favors or a discount or cutting some slack, or something like that. It’s kind of like doing business with family. That’s not always a bad thing, but sometimes there can be pressure to be slack about business standards. |
“I actually agreed with the point that was made by the speaker – if all other things are equal and you’re going to be hiring someone anyway – why not put that money in the pocket of a qualified LDS professional? That was the general thrust of the presentation given in the talk.” That is a great fallacy. All other things are never equal. In fact, many would argue that from a business perspective that even if you buy into the false idea that all else can be equal, you should hire someone who is different than you. Diversity is a good thing. In any case, most stakes and wards have an employment specialist. The church also has it’s own jobs site. It seems wrong to undermine the church program from the church pulpit. |
I didn’t want to bring it up, JKC, but you’re right. When I ran a solo law practice, some LDS potential clients openly expected that I would charge lower fees to members of the LDS church. On rare occasions, I would encounter an LDS member who expected me to provide free services to LDS clients. I used to joke (half-seriously) that when I received phone calls from potential clients, I could quickly tell whether the caller was LDS or not. Non-LDS potential clients began the conversation with “I have this problem…” LDS potential clients began the conversation with “How much would it cost to…” ;-) |
Sorry, I pasted the link. Here’s the link. LDSJobs.org |
Sorry, I pasted the link. Here’s the link. LDSJobs.org |
KyleM, I understand your perspective and viewpoint. I’m just entertaining another possibility. We often hear people appreciate that the Bloggernacle exists and that it provides a forum for conversations that simply cannot take place in the “official” church/chapel environment. In the same way, I think the online world could provide a context in which LDS business people, professionals, talent, etc. could congregate, have discussions, etc. I think the element here that is freaking people out is that there was a talk on the subject of this site from the pulpit. Again, I was there — and the presentation did not feel inappropriate to me. There are many times when I’ve felt a strange vibe or uncomfortable when certain things were said from the pulpit – this just wasn’t one of them. I’m a little bit concerned that sometimes our reservations about certain things might mean that we (as an LDS community) are getting in our own way. |
You wouldn’t advocate MormonMentality.org in stake priesthood meeting, would you? I’m not saying the hireasaint.org site in and of itself is good or bad. I guess I’ll just defer to you since you were there and I was three timezones away. |
Never, never, NEVER hire someone or do business with someone simply because they are LDS. There are too many people out there that are all too willing to abuse the assumptions that others make about them because they are LDS. Even honest people can have serious misunderstandings over business dealings that can lead to long term hard feelings and divide wards. Even working with the Church as a business can be tricky. Of all the clients that I’ve dealt with the Church is the one that I’ve had the most problems with. Part of this is probably due to my own attitude in working with them, assuming that they’ll be a certain way because they are the Church. Honestly, this Hire a Saint site seems like a perfect place of the less ethical among us to hang out. I’d steer clear. |
There’s enough concerns expressed here in this thread that I’m starting to think maybe it’s better to err on the side of caution. I’ve had a few personal experiences doing business with church members that didn’t work out ideally – not so much, I think, because anyone was a horrible person – but just because of the normal stresses associated with the marketplace. |
Guy Murray – #13 – On what legal basis would the church be held liable, even if it did endorse the service? I can’t think of any. |
This makes me think of my dad for two reasons– he was a carpenter by trade, and also had been an auto mechanic. He was constantly called on by ward members to fix stuff for them, and every one assumed he would do it for nothing. To some extent, he didn’t mind helping, but it got to be way too much. I think it’s very common in the church to expect that other church members will give you a discount or work for free, as someone mentioned above. So if I had a service I wanted to advertise, I’d be a bit leery of advertising it there. And, my dad lives in Utah, and had seen enough of some of the scams that go on there. He used to say, “If a man goes out of his way to let you know he’s a Mormon, in a business deal, you’d better keep your hand on your wallet.” I would be careful about using anyone from that list. I generally won’t do business with anyone from my own ward, just because long ago I had a problem with our day care person who was also in our ward. I realized then that it can be very touchy if any kind of problem comes up. The woman who cuts my hair lives in our ward now, after a boundary change, but I’ve been going to her long enough, I think it won’t be a problem. |
So I should prefer to hire a saint over hiring a sister or brother without regard to whether they’ve been baptized? This is a perk of membership? Perhaps we should add a “hire-an-investigator” website to see if we can increase conversions. Yecch. |
Hey everyone, I just got back from a trip to Utah, and oh my heck, I’ve got this great new business idea! It involves selling this amazing juice! I’m definitely willing to hire any and all Saints interested. Maybe I, too, can get a stake fireside to promote this exciting new opportunity! |
Not at $37.50 a bottle, Tagore. How does stuff like this take off in Utah? I though Mormons were cheap. |
I have never checked into it but people tell me that there is a systematic effort on the Internet to take advantage of Mormon widows. Apparently, marriage swindlers marry the widows only to consume their savings and then move on. Those confidence swindlers seem to be quite adept in feigning conformity with Mormon culture. It seems to me that similar opportunities would emerge with a Mormon contractor’s and job service. Skepticism can go a long way to protect yourself against confidence tricksters. A Mormon job website would undermine skepticism and may become a tool for criminals. |
I think this is a terrible idea. My experiences in hiring LDS professionals (used car dealer and realtor) have both been fairly negative. This is a recipe for disaster for all the reasons mentioned. It’s almost as bad as the time the sister missionaries announced a Pampered Chef party they were hosting for an investigator (that they went ahead and held after I called them on it in an official capacity!!!!!!!). |
It’s been quite interesting to read the comments no this post. I wonder what it tells us about Mormons – that many of us prefer not to do business with our own kind or that we are suspicious of efforts to bring LDS people together for business purposes. 1) Is it an honesty issue? Perhaps we like to be idealists about Mormons and business brings ugly realities to light. Are we more honest, just as honest or less honest than non-Mormons in doing business? 2) Is it a proximity issue? There are many people who prefer not to mix private relationships and business _or_ family relationships and business _or_ friendships and business. Maybe this is the same thing. 3) Is it because of the false/improper expectations that arise? Some have noted experiences with LDS people who think/expect they will get services for free from other LDS. Maybe there are other reasons too. It’s been interesting to think about all these potential dynamics. One thing is obvious from this thread – many LDS prefer not to do business with other LDS. I wonder if that’s something we should want to change or not. I really don’t know. |
I have to say that, other than being announced in an official Stake capacity, I don’t think this is bad per se. I tend to do look through informal networks to find help, and have had almost universally positive experiences with personal service providers (other than cell phone providers), whether LDS or not. My babysitter is an LDS girl in our ward, while my financial advisor is a guy who cold-called me at work, and had probably never met a Mormon before. The only place, I think, where it’s disadvantageous to do business with a church member is where we assume that membership is a perfect proxy for honesty; if, on the other hand, we go in with our eyes open, then business dealings with some Mormons will be just as good as business dealings with some non-Mormons. Again, outside of the apparent imprimateur of the Church (and the unprofessional look of the site–my unsolicited advice: if you want to advertise how professional you are, capitalize!), it doesn’t seem that far from Facebook or any other professional networking site or organization. |
Some of the most dishonest people I’ve met are LDS, belonging to our church definitely isn’t a good enough reason for me to hire you. |
Danithew, I don’t mind doing business with people who happen to be Latter-day Saints. I do have a problem seeking out business because the proprietors are Latter-day Saints. That’s an important difference. And I definitely would not want to do business with anyone preferring to do business with other LDS. The danger that this person would stretch for some religious excuse to take advantage of me would be too great (I was so inspired about that particular investment). The multi-level marketing schemes that sweep through LDS circles are evidence enough of how disadvantageous it can be when one mixes business and religion: too many temptations to exploit one another and too little skepticism to protect oneself. For a large tithe paying family, the loss of as little as a thousand dollars to an MLM is a big deal . . . and it is quickly more than that. |
I wonder what it tells us about Mormons – that many of us prefer not to do business with our own kind or that we are suspicious of efforts to bring LDS people together for business purposes. danithew, I didn’t mean to give that impression and I don’t think that others did either. My point is to simply ignore whether someone is LDS or not. Their membership should have no bearing on a decision to do business with them. A website that exists purely to promote LDS-owned businesses to LDS people seems to me to have its priorities backwards. I would not use such a service because I find the mindset that it fosters distasteful and I think that it is a potential haven for scammers. |
While I’m happy to hire a member, I only do so if they are otherwise the best person for the job. I don’t discriminate one way or the other. I do however avoid anyone who leads their “pitch†with their Church membership. Potential conflicts in the relationship aren’t limited to issues of honesty. Several years ago I hired a church member I didn’t know for some graphic and printing work. Coincidentally I was the high councilor assigned to his ward. When he baptized his daughter he asked me to stand in the confirmation circle, even though I had only known him for a couple of weeks and our relationship was purely business. Within a month we had a business conflict (I felt he had under-delivered on the project). Over the course of the dispute he complained that I had spoiled his daughter’s confirmation by entering the circle with a spirit of animosity (which I didn’t feel at the time). I still find myself avoiding this brother at stake events. |
RGB, I appreciate the specific example. I think it shows very well how the stresses and candidness often required in business transactions can sour what would have been a positive relationship. I think it shows what people are concerned about here. We want to get along with our brothers and sisters at church – and the friction you are talking about shows the problems that can arise. I wonder, in a sense, if our ability as Mormons to do business with each other might be one type of ultimate reality test of how well our principles and beliefs can stand up under stress. We are all, of course, human individuals, with faults and foibles. I think one of the problems that arises with Mormons doing business with each other is that both client and customer will have higher expectations of each other (than we would have of non-Mormons) and the harsher context of day-to-day business might brutally undermine those expectations. |