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A guy in our Boston ward drove a cab. He said that when someone would cut him off he would pray for that person. If something worse happened he would fast for the offender. Unfortunately he was a pretty terrible driver himself and it seems likely that he caused more harm by his driving than any amount of fasting could deal with. |
9 miles in an hour? couldn’t you bike it faster? |
Devyn, didn’t we have this talk already? if you get your self an inexpensive used road bike, you will get to work faster and feel great when you sit down at your desk. |
If you get a bike, try a recumbent before purchasing anything. They are very nice for commuting. |
…what about public transit? I hear you have a good system that goes everywhere. |
Devyn, I bike 11 miles to and from work each day, passing cheerfully by cars stuck in traffic. Your inner child would love to commute this way. |
as a commuter,I especially like this one: 1. You shall not kill. and then I would add this one: 2. Keep you damn eyes on the road and off your cell phone. Do not be tempted to send, accept,answer or check you messages, voice mail or caller ID whilst you are driving. Exercise a bit of self control and remember that you are taking my life in your hands to satisfy a curiosity and save a few minutes. |
correction: as a bike commuter… |
Ellsworth:
you mean like riding as fast as you can to see if you can beat your best time home? Or taking the long route and adding an extra 10 miles before or after work? nothing better than a good ride in the morning. You do get all sweaty before work but nothing a good towel, soap and fresh deodorant can’t fix. ahhh….fall riding. can’t wait to get my new handlebar on and then I’m off. |
ARJ – Bill C? Sounds like him – I was in a Counselor in the Bishopric in Revere with him. Great guy – does he still give bread and candy out during Church? cchrissy – yes I could, but problem is there is either a tunnel or a very large bridge in the way so I would need a boat to get across… |
Ok good ideas, but some issues – the subway takes 1.5 hours as I have to take three different lines so that is out. Bike is a great idea, but only way I could do it is to go around Boston Harbor which would effectively double my commute. My only solution thus far has been to work from home one day a week… |
Devyn, Yes, and he still gives out bread. If you see him tell him he still has my copy of A New Kind of Science. |
mfranti – too funny – I have seen so many people eating, talking on the phone, and driving, none of which I am sure is very successful. I must admit I have tried to send an email while driving on a straight freeway. Probably not the safest or smartest thing I have done. I keep hoping Mass passes a no phone while driving law like NYC has. |
I used to feel exactly the same way when I would make the daily commute from Provo to West Valley one summer while I was at BYU. I was angry and frustrated, which made me even more angry and frustrated. I didn’t even recognize myself when I was stuck in traffic. I would think, “I’m not an angry person! I never get angry! Why am I so angry???” … 5 years and a few good decisions later, I’ve assembled a near arsenal of bicycles fit for different occasions for less than the annual cost of car ownership and I’m barely even aware that traffic congestion still exists. The angry commuter inside is no more. |
well where you live in Boston, really the best way is driving. Have you considered moving closer to work? |
Boston really is a nightmare for cycling, and that’s really unfortunate. |
RC – that is my story exactly – at least up until you buy the bicycles. Dan – thought about it, but of course, homes closer to Harvard Square are a little out of my price range… My wife and I are considering moving out of Boston into a smaller city where I could commute by bike if I so chose…. |
ARJ – He is quite a character. I saw him a few weeks ago, I guess he no longers drives a cab. He was trying to tell me his latest conspiracy about the Iraq war… |
rc, you bike from Provo to West Valley for work? WOW. |
Ellsworth, I am now a SLiC-er. I have a short commute-less than 6 miles each way. it takes a few minutes longer than when I drive but for those familiar with the SLC roads and drivers, commuting here sucks. and I’ve heard about Boston, they guy sitting next to me is from there. But I just can’t resist the challenge of finding a “way” to make it happen. Nobody should have to sit in their car for and hour to go nine miles! |
First Commandment: Don’t Drive or at least drive less. Sounds like it’s time for a paradigm shift. It could be time to change your life style. You could move into town where you are close to work, the arts, sports, dining etc. You’d have a couple more hours to yourself or with family each day. You’d be more fresh and productive at work. You could give great strength to an inner city ward, you could sell your lawn mower and lots of other yard tools. Essentially, simplify. Two hours a day adds up to a ton of time in a year, or a career. Seems like a huge sacrifice to me. |
I knew you were in SoCal from your profile here with annegb (I think). Utah is not a very bike-firendly place, but Boston is really tough. I did some classes there a year ago and had my bike shipped to me there; it was great to ride downtown, and park my bike for lunch in the commons. |
Candleman – you are absolutely correct. Answer is to move out of Boston… |
Before I quit my job I was commuting 35 miles one way, it took an hour on a good day. That was on the 405 into LA, which is one of the most congested freeways on the planet, or something like that. I always thought of my drive as my music time. I’m obsessed with music, and it was my time to listen to whatever I wanted. I’d totally tune everything else out. Even so, my commute was really draining. Oh and one trick when you find yourself irritated by someone is to make an excuse for their behavior. Maybe that car that cut you off didn’t see you. Maybe that car’s blinker isn’t working. Etc. |
Devyn,
Right, that’s always the tough part about places like Boston. My wife and I just moved back into New York City. I work downtown, but we didn’t want to live in Manhattan or Brooklyn. The stuff you find there is just too small. We’re living nicely out in Far Rockaway. Problem is that my commute is over an hour on the A train. :( |
Bill Cortelyou is one of my heros. He gave out something like 10,000 copies of the Book of Mormon in his cab in various languages. After I started slinging books, someone told me about him and pointed out an article about him in the Ensign. Tiny-URL here: http://tinyurl.com/aruwf At the rate I’m going, it will take me another 27 years to reach him. I looked him up in the online phone book, and wrote to him (snail mail) but never heard back. How can I get in touch with him and share stories? Does he have email? |
Bookslinger – email me and I can send you his cell phone number… When I went to your site, I figured he was your hero. Susan – thanks for the idea. I can try that as well. I do remember a talk in Stake Conference once about a guy who was talking a complex art project to school with his daughter and people were honking at them. His daughter asked why didn’t they know they had to be careful when driving. A few weeks later he was driving his daughter and honked at someone driving slow in front of him. His daugther asked him why he did that when they are probably driving an important art project to school like they were a few weeks ago. That story has always struck me as one to remember…. Dan – Far Rockaway – that is a long haul – I served in that area in the early 1990s when those poor members had to go to Rego Park for Church. The one advantage of a subway commute is that you can read at least – not feasible when I drive… |
I can’t handle traffic, whether or not I have music. I feel like a caged animal. |
insert cell phone for car and you see why i refuse to have one. enough of that… Devyn, can you ride your bike to a train or bus that can cross the tunnel for you? I bet if you used a combination, you could still make it to work earlier and with a better attitude. Ellsworth, Susan, I moved out of O.C to get away from the traffic on the 405 but it seems to have followed me. Apparently, I didn’t expect UT to grow so fast. ps. living in the south end of Orange County, I HATED driving up to LA. |
mfranti – true about cell phones. However, my work makes me have a blackberry so I get the “opportunity” to remain plugged in 24-7. The #$@%#@ is addictive so now I check it first thing in the morning and I usually have 5-10 emails sent after midnight. It is ridiculous how these gadgets have intruded into our QOL. I will think about biking to the train – hard thing is it is three train changes to get to my work. If it were one, I would definitely take the train. |
Devyn: have you researched ride-sharing? With 2 or 3 other people you’d only have to drive 1/2 or 1/3rd the time. Wouldn’t save time, but may save on aggravation. |
Bookslinger–I’m headed to Boston on Oct. 12 and will undoubtedly see Bill, who was one of my husband’s dearest friends back in grad school days. I will almost certainly see Bill. ARJ also has contact info for him. I know Bruce speaks to Bill periodically. And I’m sure we’ll call before I head back east to let him know I’ll be there. Any messages you’d like me to convey? |
In LA we lived next to the 405 freeway about a mile south of the Santa Monica Freeway. The noise was like a waterfall day and night; we couldn’t leave the windows open. During the afternoon commute, though, the noise often dropped off dramatically because the cars couldn’t move. I lived five miles from work there. Half the time I used my bike, half the time I took a Santa Monica bus that went straight where I was headed. It was great. Coming home I would either zip past jammed cars on my bike or walk a couple miles past the bad congestion. Then, I moved to Michigan and picked a house half a mile from work. I walked to work. I walked home for lunch. I played a round of dominos with my child before walking back to work. It was wonderful. But now I spend two, and sometimes three, hours each day driving. At age 37, I became a commuter. Such an incredible waste of life. |
Margaret I look forward to your presentation next month. I did not know you knew Bill C. He is a wonderful guy. John – Sounds like you and I are the same age and in the same commuting hell. When you calculate the number of hours you spend driving annually it gets very depressing… |
John, yours is a sad, sad tale, and all too common. |
exactly what I was talking about ellsworth! they stop short of pointing at you but you can feel them laughing at you like your some sort of freak show because you “can’t afford a car” |
Thou shalt support federally mandated reductions in automobile horsepower capacity – which shall lead to less capability to cut people off, accelerate quickly, travel and dangerous speeds, and generally drive like an imbecile. Thou shalt also support laws criminalizing the use of cell phones while driving. |
Amen, Seth!! Thou shalt remember the “one car length for every ten m.p.h. of speed” rule and keep it carefully. Thou shalt not cut across two lanes of traffic, no matter how clear it seems and certainly never during heavy traffic when there’s a tiny rented Yaris with a bumper-riding semi behind it between you and your target lane. I saw a sticker the other day that said “Caution: this car explodes on impact. Stay the [unclear expletive] back!” |
I like this one: I think most of the problems that come with cars are pure tragedy-of-the-commons stuff, with more than a little bit of the “video game” mentality thrown in for good measure. Toll (rather than invisibly tax-funded) highways, charitable attitudes, and a firm grasp on reality (“that isn’t a ‘car,’ that’s four people just like me and my family, and didn’t Newton say something about inertia?”) would fix most of everything. Oh, and telecommuting — the more business we can do online and over the phone, the better. Right now I’m working for my mom’s law office part time while looking for a “real” job, and the only reason I go out is when I need to go “somewhere” (the store, a museum, etc.) or on court business. It’s absolutely heavenly — my last assistant gig involved 2 hours of driving every day. |
Thanks Seth, PDOE and Sarah. One of mine would be – if you are over the age of 65 and driving to a medical appointment, do not schedule your appointment during commuting hours as your fellow drivers would appreciate it… |
Okay, look at what Staples is doing: …Encourage alternative transportation by installing bike racks and showers… |