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What is the point of sharing their faith and the message of Christ if not to convert? The denial of this basic motivation is simply missionaries trying not to come off as intrusive. Of course they want baptisms. |
That is not to say that sharing cannot be motivated by a simple desire for mutual understanding and appreciation. Among missionaries, however (and the vast majority of members) this is rarely the case. |
Our current Church president has a famous quote about how when we measure performance, performance increases, and when we measure performance and report it, performance increases at a faster rate. Yes, that sounds corporate, and it is. But in the next breath, he emphasizes that we are focusing on people and their salvation. Of course it’s about gaining converts. And home teaching, at its core, is about helping people stay close to the faith. And assignments to serve in the temple is to help the deceased receive ordinances. It’s a different eternal model than casual Church. |
At the same time … missionaries have responsibilities that go beyond just simple “conversion” (acknowledging that conversion comes from the Spirit, not the missionaries). Depending on the area, they may help strengthen the members, help reactivate the saints, or just generally foster goodwill for the Church. I was a branch president for part of my mission. There wasn’t any MTC training for that. |
I’m starting out in Knowledge Management, and I’m itching to apply KM theory to some aspects of the Church, especially the Missionary system. One recent concept that just came up is that when we measure something, that is what becomes important. This is often to the detriment of the core mission of the organization when the measure is not well thought out and tied to the core mission. So, measuring numbers (quantitative) is a quick way to measure how well missionaries are doing. It’s fast, it’s like the acid test ratio in investing. And, in the early days of the church where there was mass conversions just about everywhere. However, it also leads to abuse like the Baseball Baptisms However, there are better ways to measure intangibles like the way the Church can change peoples lives. Qualitative measurement, anecdotal evidence, stories,and best practices are all effective ways to measure the effectiveness of the Missionary program. The problem is is that it requires time, patience and a bit of a change of mindset. So, we have two schools of thought… and the RM’s will probably all have similar experiences. You have the stories in the Ensign about good missionary work that most members think exemplify missionary work… then you have the Bizzaro-world of quickie baptisms and dodgey emotional manipulation that characterizes most missions (at least it did mine and a significant number of people that I’ve talked to.) @queno (3) Of course missionaries are all about getting converts but the core mission of the church is to change lives. But when you measure the # of converts instead of the quality of converts (which is one heck of a lot harder) you get Baseball/Football baptisms or the corporate equivalent. |
Of course it’s to change lives. And it’s fairly easily to gauge whether the baptisms are “real” or spurious. If you have two missionaries who work 10 hours a day and are baptizing two families a month, and two missionaries who work 14 hours a day and haven’t baptized anyone in 6 months … it’s fairly obvious that some drilling down needs to occur… There are wards and stakes that are experimenting with new home teaching “models” — designed to focus on the people who really need it, as opposed to people who don’t need a monthly visit. But how do you decide where to focus the efforts? You have to have data and a way to measure it. Think the proverbial shepherd with his ninety and nine didn’t make observations about which parts had the best grass? And when he didn’t go searching for the lost sheep, he didn’t have some inkling of where to look? That the gardener doesn’t apply some historical patterns to help him prune the orchard? Yes, there are less intelligent ways of capturing statistics. But generally the problem isn’t that someone is capturing numbers. It’s that they aren’t capturing ENOUGH of the RIGHT numbers. In the case of missionaries, I believe it’s a fairly effective method to count discussions, contacts, hours worked, and yes, baptisms, because you’ll find that doing enough of the small things the *right* way leads to more baptisms. (Recognizing that not all missions are equal and not all missionaries are put in that position, and that wards have much to do with the process of conversion.) (Applying my data mining background here …) |
The problem is that there is a lot of official material that missionaries are exposed to in their training that emphasizes the “softer approach” and that your goal is to testify and share, and all that nice stuff. But then you turn in your weekly reports and it is almost ALL focused on results – how many conversions? How many investigators? How many Book of Mormons? So, while the missionaries are being told one model overtly, their incentives program is completely geared toward another model. So, I don’t think the missionaries are being dishonest, they’re just dealing with a bit of cognitive dissonance. |
I don’t think it’s necessarily deceptive of missionaries to say they simply want to share a message, not convert. At a first meeting, the goal wouldn’t generally be conversion. The goal is introduce the person to the gospel message, the Book of Mormon, etc. For those who express interest, the goal then becomes conversion. Conversion is the long-term goal, I suppose, but since we consider it better to share some of the message and get nowhere than to not share it at all, it’s not the only goal. |
I think we shouldn’t forget here why it’s important to have converts–we want people to have the true Gospel of Christ in their lives so they can have joy. |
My district in the MTC was told that our primary purpose was to convert and baptize souls and we were also told that if a potential convert asked us if we were there to convert them or baptize them, the answer should be a direct and up-front YES. Of course this MTC experience was in 1990. I have no idea how they approach the same question now. |
Somewhere in the middle of my mission, I decided that my focus was not on baptizing people, but helping each person I ran into to live a little better. For many, this would mean baptism and getting on the path to temple attendance. But for others, it was fostering understanding, or just lifting a burden. Were I in mfranti’s position, I would have said that a missionary’s goal should be helping people move a little bit closer to God. Often, this involves baptism. For serious investigators, a goal will always be to prepare them for baptism and the path to the temple. One reason baptism stories are often used in talks is that the conversion and covenant-making process is often dramatic and moving. But I can’t see how it would be appropriate to use baptism statistics in RM talks. It seems like a poor teaching technique, and a poor way to help members feel the Holy Ghost. |
I genuinely felt, as a missionary, that I was simply sharing something good–it was up to the receiver to decide if it was worth pursuing for self-conversion. As an RM, I have never, I don’t think, discussed number of baptisms, etc. I agree with your husband that if I heard an RM doing that, I would assume his focus was on the numbers. |
I was a fairly succesful missionary on my mission. One of my tactics after a discussion or 2 was to have an open conversation about my intentions and why we kept coming around. “Brother Jones. We are missionaries for our church the reason we speak to people is to grow the local congregation of our church. Are you interested in being a member of our church? Do you want to become a Mormon?” Etc. If they indicated yes. I would generally tell them that they needed to start coming to church every week and that after a month or 2 of study and church attendance they could get baptized. I also at this point would discuss at length any family situations, wow issues, LOC issues that would make it hard to be a Mormon. I would then also start with letting them ask any question they wanted about LDS beliefs and practices and ignore the suggested 6 lesson plan and cater the entire teaching plan to what they needed to become converted. People really appreciated the honesty of the approach and we quickly determined how serious they were as well. |
mfranti – good to see you are still around – you have been a stranger lately. I think that bbell’s approach is probably the right one – missionaries sole intention is to convert people (not necessarily the right intention), but that is what it is. I am certainly not proud of some of the manipulative baptisms I participated in, but I have learned a lot since those days. |
FWIW my mission did not have quickie baptisms or dodgy manipulative ones. We had strict enforced guidelines on how a missionary proceeded with potential converts. Church attendance was key to the whole process. Also what is the point of laying out your own money and spending 2 years if you are not serious about what you are doing? (in other words conversions) One of the issues I noticed is that it was easy to tell who was paying for some of their mission and who was not. I had multiple 25-27 year old comps who had paid their own way who were extremely effective elders. |
It is not the missionary’s job to “covert.” The spirit does that. The missionary’s job, through persuasiona and long-suffering, is to teach people the gospel of Jesus Christ with conversion and baptism as the hopeful byproduct. I think it is perfectly honest to say “my job is not to convert you, but my job is to share with you the gospel of Jesus Christ and I hope that that will result in your conversion.” |
I really believe we’re also trying to help people take more, rather than just something different, I think we’re offering something additional. Yes, there are some beliefs that will change, but I truly believe the Latter-day Saint faith offers not just something different, but something more. |
Hrmmm. I truly believe/hope that things are changing in recent years. One glance at Preach My Gospel shows the emphasis changing from numbers towards following the Spirit. From Preach my Gospel (p. 1) “Your purpose is to invite others to come unto Christ by helping them receive the restored gospel through faith in Jesus Christ and his atonement, repentance, baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost, and enduring to the end.” Does that make anyone else feel better?? I think the “purpose is to invite” part is pretty great. There is a whole list on p. 10 about “You know you’re a successful missionary when…” that I love, and that symbolizes a change in approach that I hope we’ll see manifested more widely in church culture in years to come. Some examples: It ends with one of the best missionary statements I’ve ever seen: “When you have done your very best, you may still experience disappointments, but you will not be disappointed in yourself. You can feel certain the Lord is pleased when you feel the Spirit working through you.” (p. 11). This takes the focus of numbers, which makes me feel a lot better. A little more Jesus, a little less MBA, you know? |
My thought are similar to Duke of Earl Gray’s. It isn’t dishonest to have the objective of a street encounter to be the introducing someone to the gospel in the larger context of the overall missionary objective of bringing souls to Christ. If the message is received well initially then the missionaries and investigators progress together toward eventual conversion. A iffy analogy would be Mongolia, where missionaries were (maybe still are) restricted from actively pursuing investigators, but are allowed to teach those how ask to be taught. Proselyting missionaries are sent to Mongolia as English instructors in the universities, and spend a large amount of the time doing just that. They make many contacts and the growth of the Church in Mongolia is strong. The a fortiori objective of bringing souls to Christ doesn’t mean that people aren’t learning English. |
I got half way through my mission when I decided just to tell people why I was there. Instead of saying “We share messages about Christ.” I’d say “We share messages about Christ in order to help people prepare to be baptized. Like your husband, I felt the whole “We just share messages about Christ” spiel was just disingenuous. I figure might as well tell people right off the bat I was hoping to baptize them. I didn’t want to waste their time, and I didn’t want to waste mine. Did it turn a lot of people off? Yep. But I I had just as many who were ready to listen and prepare for baptism. As soon as I started doing this, I found myself spending more time with people who were wanting to be baptized. Looking back, I admit I was a bit cavalier on my mission, but it seemed to work. |
The numbers issue of missionary work often rankles me but I had an RM friend who’s explanation put it in a humbling perspective for me. After sharing my “issue” with quotas and quick baptisms, he defesively said, I have also met missionaries that had differing ideas on what their purpose was. Some were all about obedience, some about numbers, some about showing the world that Mormons were human too, etc. In the end, I try not to be to hard about the numbers issue because I realize that these are a bunch of 19 year old boys/men being thrown out there and the church has to try and regulate, motivate, and keep them all in line somehow. |
Missionaries are the sales are of the church. What good is a sales organization that does not sell? Converting and baptizing people is their primary purpose. Anyone who says otherwise is being disingenuous. |
I have to admit that as a member, to me it was obvious that the missionaries were out to convert people. I mean, when they came to our house for dinner, that’s what they talked about. I wasn’t even aware that some missionaries said things like they said to mfranti’s husband. I can see how someone in his position would feel manipulated if an Elder said this to him–especially considering he’s married to a member and knows how most members feel about the role of missionary work. However, most of the missionaries I grew up around would never have purposefully manipulated anyone (or if they did, they truly believed it was for a greater purpose). Perhaps to non-members this makes them question the sincerity of missionary friendship and service. For example, if the missionaries help out a family often, and the family still refuses to convert, and so the missionaries finally stop coming around, is that family going to feel like the missionaries’ (or to their point of view the church’s) interest in them extends only so far as their potential for conversion? In situations like these, perhaps the service the missionaries render looks less like genuine service and more like a favor for which they expect conversion in return. |
I think a lot of the comments are generalizing about missionaries’ personal motives. There are myriad reasons missionaries do what they do and what they believe their goals are. As a missionary, my goal was to see people baptized. Everything else was details. For someone else, that won’t be true. From my experience, however, most missionaries at least start out focusing on baptizing because that’s what everyone talks about and measures your success by. Even the softer approach represented by Preach My Gospel is geared for funneling people into conversion. Things might be different if the church sent missionaries out with the expressed purpose of better educating people about Mormon beliefs with only a slight emphasis on conversion. There would be no commitment pattern (or whatever may have replaced it by now) or any sales tactics. But then who would go on missions if they didn’t believe they were out to change lives? |
We lost a missionary from our MTC branch whose main problem was the “commitment process.” He had felt coerced to go on a mission, and didn’t want to coerce others to get baptized. Along the same lines, a missionary currently in the field reported that one investigator was quite disturbed by the Mormon phrase “I know the Church is true” (or whatever else is being testified to). These are not easy issues to answer. We train our children to recite phrases which might not actually reflect their developing sense of what comprises truth and what doesn’t. I love the emphasis in _Preach My Gospel_ on acquiring Christ-like attributes. That’s the section I read most frequently, and need the most. I love having our missionaries be involved in service. Service changes lives–and then missionaries are free to answer questions about why they are devoting two years of prime time to their Church. I wouldn’t go on a mission with the purpose of changing lives. I’ve already done far too much passenger-seat driving in my children’s lives–with little success. (They tend to turn when they want to turn.) I would happily go to be a resource for anyone who might want to discuss Mormonism with me, but I wouldn’t go to change people–especially since I realize that such a goal is arrogant and impossible. The Spirit changes people; people choose to change or not to change. My presence might inspire, or it might hinder. (I frankly have found some of the more zealous members of the bloggernacle to be a hindrance to my belief in Mormon goodness, because they are often so very unkind. I would hate to see them become missionaries unless they really focused on those Christ-like attributes.) I |
This discussion reminds me of the episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm where Larry David wonders out loud why Christians are forever pushing their religion on other people. He compares prosletyzing to trying to make people eat lobster (“It’s GOOOD!!, it’s GOOOD!!”). I tried to find the quote online – it’s hilarious. |
The Spirit changes people; people choose to change or not to change. This has not been my experience as a missionary. My sample size is admittedly pretty small, but the experiences which the LDS church connects with the Spirit didn’t correlate very well with the people who actually changed their lives. For example, I was once out with an Aaronic priesthood holder following up on referrals. We contacted a man who had requested a video. He didn’t have a VCR handy to play it on, but we had a very inspiring First Discussion. We helped him recognize the feelings of the Spirit which he readily agreed were of God. He was excited by what we had to say, and so was my young companion after we left that home. He was certain that this man would be baptized since he had felt and recognized the Spirit. Match point. Two weeks later, this young priesthood holder asks me how this man was doing. I regretfully had to inform him that he hadn’t returned our calls, answered the door, etc. Feeling the Spirit didn’t actually change this man’s life. Some may deny that he truly felt the Spirit, but I have no way of discerning the difference. In the end, those feelings were only a small part of what went into changing a person’s life. In my experience, it has a lot more to do with the skill and personalities of the missionaries, the person’s social situation, and how they currently felt about their life. I wouldn’t even say that having those feelings was necessary to make a lasting change in a person’s life. |
ellsworth, thanks for the editing and emphasis on “powder day”. you must understand sundays and powder are like magic when you work a typical 40hr week. hi devyn, thanks for noticing my absence. everyone else, i’m anxious to comment but i just can’t get a break in my work load. i’ve got a mouthful for some of you. just think about this: have you considered what’s going on in the mind of the investigator/non-member that is living in salt lake city? also, it seems like many of you think that you guys did performed magic on your missions. and while i appreciate the work of the missionaries (and i love them dearly) i wasn’t converted by a geeky 22 year old boy or anything he said. like Margaret said, the spirit and my willingness to accept the spirit (knowledge) is what converted me. be back… i’ll be b ack |
can someone clean up that mess up there? thanks |
Elders, Elders, Elders…. You always get so defensive when we ask why you’re obsessed with numbers. I’m getting zone meeting flash backs reading your comments. Remind your husband that these are 19 year old boys, not great leaders (sorry to burst your egos boys but you’re what the scriptures call the ‘weak things of the world’). They still want to be successful, they still want to be cool, and they compare themselves with their peers- which is when numbers become important. They are succeptable to the mentality of a 19 year old. There are a very select few that understand that what gets measured isn’t always what gets done. It’s those missionaries that serve a mission to SERVE JESUS CHRIST, in what ever capacity he needs them, and not to specifically that are superb missionaries, and you’ll never hear about numbers, you’ll hear about people. Tell your husband to ignore the humanity of these weak instruments that are succeptable to pride just like the rest of us, and listen to what the leaders preach, because after all- they are just boys. |
My comment was missing a sentence it should read: “It’s those missionaries that serve a mission to serve Jesus Christ, in what ever capacity He need them, and not to specifically baptise- that are superb missionaries. You’ll never about number from them, you’ll hear about people.” |
Some of my favorite mission experiences were when it became clear we were not going to be baptizing someone for one reason or another, and we were able to interact with people with no other motive than enjoying each other’s company. One night my companion and I talked to a guy on the street and he quickly told us he was an atheist Catholic, so he wasn’t interested in what we had to say. |
I joined the church at 20 and left on my mission 18 mos. later. I did not have a single baptism during that time. Three of the young women I taught were eventually baptized when they were fully committed not only to the gospel to the the LDS lifestyle that comes with it. I am not sorry. I went on a mission so that I could introduce others to the gospel just as my friends had introduced it to me. I knew from my own experiences that all I could do was love and teach and that the rest was up to them. I’m not at all ashamed of my ‘numbers’, or the lack thereof. For me, it was all a labor of love from start to finish. Any conversions were incidental to the work I was doing ever day, and that includes a continuation of my own. |
It’s those missionaries that serve a mission to serve Jesus Christ, in what ever capacity He need them, and not to specifically baptise- that are superb missionaries. You’ll never about number from them, you’ll hear about people. I guess I wasn’t one of those missionaries because I went because I thought the Lord wanted me to serve him by baptizing people into his church. I think it’s a nice, romantic idea that some missionaries go out to serve Christ and don’t really care how many baptisms they see as long as they’re serving Christ. Looking back on my own experience, I don’t think any missionary in my mission came close to fitting that idea. All of us (those who gave a rat’s posterior, that is) were concerned with how many people we were baptizing. That’s how we were judged by the mission leadership, and that’s how we set goals. I think we all wanted to look good. It’s hard to avoid thinking numbers when the scripture on your missionary plaque is Alma 26:22.
Blech! :) |
I think it would be great if the missionaries were focused on conversion, not baptism. They are two very different things and it’s a bit sad to see them used interchangeably here. We all know tons and tons of people who were baptised but not converted. Unfortunately it’s harder to measure conversion. |
But, as Mormons, we’re taught to tell little white lies like this all the time. Only people who aren’t used to the jargon actually believe that missionaries are just being friendly or that the Mormon neighbors are just being helpful or that visiting/home teachers actually care about the people they’re assigned to visit or that every church calling is inspired by something other than convenience. Only the very young and the very naive believe such things. Everyone else knows that what we Mormons say isn’t exactly what we mean about such things. |
We all will know how converted we are or were at about the moment we die. Instances of great spiritual insight do change us for that moment–and the impact can last for hours, but these are the peaks in a very long journey, arduous journey. One reason we get so upset with Church leaders’ misbehavior is that we expect their “conversions” have somehow permanently changed them rather than simply opened their eyes to the “better angels” within them (and outside them as well). We expect better-ness in our parents, and we hope we can find it in ourselves. But ultimately, we are all pretty big disappointments. Otherwise, grace would mean very little. But it means EVERYTHING. A missionary may bring someone to the pool of Bethesda, but that person will have to independently–and repeatedly–answer the question, “Wilt thou be healed?” |
I think bon and Margaret Young have nailed it. Starting out in my mission, the goal was 60 discussions per week. We nailed it and nothing happened. I went 11 months without experiencing a convert baptism. I did experience missionaries reaching out as a resource for 1) the people, and 2) God in order to help build the church. Those first 11 months proved to be the most miraculous and spiritual times of my life. We had a different kind of success. I found that follow-up appointments were the best appointments, where we talked about the invitations we had made, what changes they represented, and how they affected investigators. I can recall going into areas and seeing missionaries struggling with their purpose, not knowing what to do. I would tell them to try Ammon- serve and be patient for what the Lord has in store. Without fail, these missionaries would experience success in 2 forms: their investigators would catch fire and demand baptism, and people would simply approach those missionaries out of nowhere and demand baptism. I would argue that humility trumps boldness. nfranti, Statistical discussions of missionary work are absolutely contradictory to the purpose of the work. I hate to be judgmental, but I always feel like I’m listening to a poor missionary who speaks of numbers. On the other hand, when a missionary speaks of particular people and lessons learned, I know he’s done God’s work. |
Jonathan Blake, I love that scripture, and it can be used to pound the baptismal numbers pulpit, but I think one can focus on the fact that first, it is given to know the mysteries of God, and then SECONDLY, it is GIVEN to bring souls to repentance. I think that scripture is open to interpretation, especially when put into proper context. I remember some Elders, especially, who set a goal to fast ever Sunday so that the Lord would give them the 5 baptisms they set a goal for. That’s silly, to me. And it never seemed to work. But if they didn’t feel in control of what work was being done, they felt like slackers. |
We all will know how converted we are or were at about the moment we die. If I understand your thought correctly, this seems like a round about way of saying that anyone who doesn’t die Mormon was never truly converted in the first place. From this it follows that the conversion experience of everyone who leaves the church and never comes back must have been different than the experiences of those who stay. If they had been more strongly or completely converted, nothing in life could get in the way. I don’t know how we can judge this to see if it’s true. My experience leads me to believe that staying in the church has much more to do with what happens between conversion and death than with the quality or strength of the conversion. Many former Mormons were extremely strong, faithful, spiritual members indistinguishable from any other member. Their life paved the way for their convictions to change. |
Since I’m wearing my MTC tag and am on my way to visit with our missionaries, what I’ll answer, Jonathan, might sound strange. No, I do not believe that anyone who doesn’t die Mormon was never truly converted in the first place. I don’t actually believe that “conversion” to Christ needs to be in the Mormon form. A truly Christian life is one of fighting a good fight and finishing the race. I believe all else will be worked out. I believe it already has been worked out. |