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Lack of e-mail social skills. There are an etiquette associated with e-mail, and not everyone has heard of it. People do all sorts of things in front of their computer that they wouldn’t dream of doing in person, and until they have learned the proper etiquette, the behavior usually continues. |
Turn it into an LOLcat. Stress relief and potential revenge all in one handy package. Point by point refutations sent to the entire list also get you labeled as ‘one of those’ and taken off future mailings, but your mileage may vary. |
No kidding! I was in a facebook group for fans of President Hinckley and also one called “Mormons are Christians,: and I kept getting these political messages. I kept replying, telling them not to involve politics in this group and that not everyone agreed. I finally left the groups, which made me feel weird, as if people seeing my status as leaving the group would think I went apostate or something. After a few forwards, my mom very firmly got the message about forwards and hasn’t repeated the act. Other people haven’t gotten the message and sometimes I have to resort to fake messages: “This user’s settings restrict forwards. Please remove the address _________ from your list.” Ha ha. |
Katie P - maybe someone should publish the list of etiquette and send a fake message a la Michelle #3 BB - what is a LOLcat? Sorry for my ignorance. Michelle - that is interesting about your Facebook experience. Good ideas though! |
What about those people who use the ward list to invite you to their party? Those totally drive my wife nuts. |
If someone sends me a forwarded email that is of some alledged event that we all should be up in arms about, I generally look it up on Snopes.com where I usually find it to be untrue. I usually write back to the person summarizing the history of the email and letting them know it is fake (and I include the link for Snopes). That usually stops a person from sending any more to me. Once it did not work so I eventually replied to all with the same information plus adding a little passive aggressive paragraph about how I am sure the sender did not want to be seen as gullible and send out fake news. That worked, and I have yet to hear from that guy going on 7 years now. The one thing I have learned though, is the most rebelious wild child from my teenage ward’s youth group has grown up to be the most hard right conservative out of all of us, at least judging by their emails. |
#5 Everytime I hear that expression I think of this and enjoy: A guy walks into a bar with a steering wheel jammed into his pant’s zipper. Bartender: Why is that there? Guy: Aw, it drives me nuts. Thank you. |
Somehow my email address got on to the list of our ward’s food storage chairman. He was one of these inconsiderate emailers. One email he sent out was about the many great uses of hydrogen peroxide, some of which snopes says can KILL YOU. I emailed him back, asked not to get the emails, showed him the snopes article, etc. He was very upset at me. 3 weeks later I was assigned the ward website admin tasks. When I approved meetings other people submitted, it sends an email to the members of the ward, and shows that I sent the email notification, and he was livid. He accused me of sending junk mail that HE didn’t want, and called me a hypocrite. It was ugly. He ended up closing his lds.org account, I guess to spite me. Shortly after, I told the bishopric about the conflict, and moved out of the ward. |
#5 Ron - I was referred to some Insurance salesman by a fellow wardmember that called and called until I was a little rude to him… #6 TStevens - now that is a great approach - I will have to try that and I like the passive aggressive tact as well. #7 TStevens - now that was funny… #8 cantinflas that sounds fun - gotta love those ward conflicts with people you have to see every Sunday…. |
I’ve had to set my software to dump all mail from an aunt and several cousins, and some service missionaries (who were good friends while they were at the church office building but who turned into seriously frightening political spammers once they returned home) into spam oblivion. I can forgive the elderly aunt for not knowing better. It’s harder to forgive the youngish cousins who should have caught on by now. I think, though, that perhaps they don’t understand because the only email they ever get is this kind of trash. They’ve never used email for business, and aren’t the kind of people who would join a list-serv or make any other serious use of email. Maybe they genuinely don’t know there is any other kind of email! My email address is published with my Tribune columns (my personal email address, not one on a Trib account). If you don’t think that sometimes draws some creepy, crawly, entertainingly frightening email … |
Ardis - I cannot imagine the strange emails one gets when associated with a newspaper. I would guess your index finger gets tired with hitting the delete button on that. |
When I had a stake calling, I used to routinely get forwarded by the SP links to polls, surveys, donation petitions, etc. All were of a highly conservative nature, dare I say that they were of a nature more conservative than the Church itself, even. After a while, I stopped deleting and decided to take action. The mail forwarded by the SP had a link where one could remove the recipient (in this case, him) from the list. So I did. I think it was 6 months before I started getting them again, and by that time, he was removed. |
Tstevens (6), |
Queuno - now that is a birlliant strategy Sam - I guess the proactive approach can backfire at times. Guess you are now the de facto myth debunker in the family… |
I use Snopes as well. It comes in handy at times. |
Tagore considers any email from me spam… |
i just reply to such spam with a one-word message: “unsubscribe” usually does the trick, especially when I don’t know the person well. |
We used to get a lot of complaints from people getting ward mail via lds.org. That was, at least, until we had a Fifth Sunday meeting explaining how lds.org worked and how that (a) we weren’t printing ward directories out anymore and (b) they could tune the announcements they cared about and (c) we could continue to push more and more info out of the bulletin and into the ward’s lds.org site. Now the complaints are, “How do I get on lds.org again”? Music to one’s ears… |
Queuno - only works when your ward is wired, unlike an inner city ward like mine where maybe 2/3 is wired and the rest are not… |
ok, I am gonna leave another post. Ugh. Just happened accross you guys. My feeling. I know some people who MASS TEXT MESSAGE and MASS EMAIL-its easy from their list of people, just point and shoot. My experience in relating these text and/or emails to these people is that they are clueless what they are sending. My experience. More often than not (the people I know well) they are doing it because its an inexpensive and “actually very UN-timeconsuming way” to get TONS of attention from lots and lots of people. These people often lack social skills, as said they dont underestand email etiquette, or social etiquette, so much so they respond “shocked” at peoples dismay. Its a really easy way to “shake it up” or make your life exciting from a cell phone or computer (pretty much becoming the same thing now lol). Think of it, nothing to do—-hmmmm—I think I will check out the replies to my latest MASS EMAIL AND MASS TEXT MESSAGES. Never mind that the person can’t even recall WHAT THEY SENT YOU!! lol. |
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