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		<title>By: Dabert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dabert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 21:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Does anyone else have any experience with this?</description>
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		<title>By: Paroled from the Primary Presidency</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paroled from the Primary Presidency</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 03:22:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#31 JA Benson - I assumed you were being a little sarcastic as was a little of my reply (it&#039;s just in my nature though my dry humor doesn&#039;t translate well via the web either). :)

I don&#039;t disagree that the Primary program can be tough for the very little children. It&#039;s a huge departure from their experiences in nursery and usually the first time they&#039;re expected to sit still *ever*! And while I&#039;m not familiar with Dr. Price, it sounds as though his analogy is right on target.

As a former Star and Sunbeam teacher I personally think a little more liveliness needs to be added to the younger classes. Good teachers and Primary Presidencies manage this though I know from experience as a young child in Primary that there are many teachers and leaders who fail miserably. It&#039;s a rare gift to be able to work with a child on his level without speaking down to him (even 3-year-olds pick up on this) which many Primary teachers and leaders do far too often.

In my latest experience in Primary we had a music leader so interested in entertaining the children that they were impossible to calm once music time was over. While the kids loved it, in my opinion she was a little immature and really didn&#039;t understand that while entertaining the masses is useful, creating havoc doesn&#039;t help anyone.

Any way you slice it, Primary is a tough gig!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#31 JA Benson &#8211; I assumed you were being a little sarcastic as was a little of my reply (it&#8217;s just in my nature though my dry humor doesn&#8217;t translate well via the web either). :)</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t disagree that the Primary program can be tough for the very little children. It&#8217;s a huge departure from their experiences in nursery and usually the first time they&#8217;re expected to sit still *ever*! And while I&#8217;m not familiar with Dr. Price, it sounds as though his analogy is right on target.</p>
<p>As a former Star and Sunbeam teacher I personally think a little more liveliness needs to be added to the younger classes. Good teachers and Primary Presidencies manage this though I know from experience as a young child in Primary that there are many teachers and leaders who fail miserably. It&#8217;s a rare gift to be able to work with a child on his level without speaking down to him (even 3-year-olds pick up on this) which many Primary teachers and leaders do far too often.</p>
<p>In my latest experience in Primary we had a music leader so interested in entertaining the children that they were impossible to calm once music time was over. While the kids loved it, in my opinion she was a little immature and really didn&#8217;t understand that while entertaining the masses is useful, creating havoc doesn&#8217;t help anyone.</p>
<p>Any way you slice it, Primary is a tough gig!</p>
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		<title>By: JA Benson</title>
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		<dc:creator>JA Benson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 13:14:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry #30 Paroled I agree 3-6 year olds usually can not sit still for 3 hours. I was being sarcastic. I am sarcastic a lot. Sorry sarcasm does not go over well on the web. Children should not be put in the situation which they will fail then to be scolded.   I served in the Primary, in various callings, for 15 years. the last stint was for eight years. BTW I love your handle.  I  have taught pre-school and kindergarten. I have observed what other churches do on Sunday. They are more concerned with how a child feels about church then keeping them quiet. Good feelings lead to feeling the spirit, and then gaining a real, lasting testimony.

 Sacrament Mtg is hard. I had Dr Price for child development at BYU and he had us try an experiment where we were to sit on a kitchen table with our legs dangling off the edge, staring at a blank wall and listen to someone speak a foreign language and see how long it took us to become antsy. Most collge students lasted about 5 minutes. The little kids are waay over their limit for sitting after that 1hr and 15 minutes. 

What is class time? It is time served in cell block c mostly sitting still. Then depending on the teacher, maybe a little fun. If the teacher goes by the book not so much.  Sharing time usually more sitting still. Music time ditto.  I am that woman who laments on the survival rate for kids surviving the 3 hour block. There was a study done recently that one of the factors in the dismal retention rate for young adults starts in Primary. Most kids are bored  out of their skulls. They wait for Mutual. Depending on the youth program in any given ward in the first few years it either grabs their attention or not.  The kids mentally  shut down and wait to be 18 and then they are out of there quite often to never return.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry #30 Paroled I agree 3-6 year olds usually can not sit still for 3 hours. I was being sarcastic. I am sarcastic a lot. Sorry sarcasm does not go over well on the web. Children should not be put in the situation which they will fail then to be scolded.   I served in the Primary, in various callings, for 15 years. the last stint was for eight years. BTW I love your handle.  I  have taught pre-school and kindergarten. I have observed what other churches do on Sunday. They are more concerned with how a child feels about church then keeping them quiet. Good feelings lead to feeling the spirit, and then gaining a real, lasting testimony.</p>
<p> Sacrament Mtg is hard. I had Dr Price for child development at BYU and he had us try an experiment where we were to sit on a kitchen table with our legs dangling off the edge, staring at a blank wall and listen to someone speak a foreign language and see how long it took us to become antsy. Most collge students lasted about 5 minutes. The little kids are waay over their limit for sitting after that 1hr and 15 minutes. </p>
<p>What is class time? It is time served in cell block c mostly sitting still. Then depending on the teacher, maybe a little fun. If the teacher goes by the book not so much.  Sharing time usually more sitting still. Music time ditto.  I am that woman who laments on the survival rate for kids surviving the 3 hour block. There was a study done recently that one of the factors in the dismal retention rate for young adults starts in Primary. Most kids are bored  out of their skulls. They wait for Mutual. Depending on the youth program in any given ward in the first few years it either grabs their attention or not.  The kids mentally  shut down and wait to be 18 and then they are out of there quite often to never return.</p>
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		<title>By: Paroled from the Primary Presidency</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paroled from the Primary Presidency</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:53:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#29 JA Benson - Having served in the Primary for some time, I can assure you that no three to six year old children sit still for three hours! Even with the 3-hour block, the first hour and 15 minutes they are their parent&#039;s problem and the next hour and 45 mintues is broken into class, sharing time, music time, and wandering aimlessly in the hall. We used to have a woman serving in the Primary who would constatly lament how it&#039;s &quot;impossible&quot; for kids to survive the 3-hour block. But I see families doing it all the time. Now... Do the Primary leaders survive as well? I don&#039;t think so. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#29 JA Benson &#8211; Having served in the Primary for some time, I can assure you that no three to six year old children sit still for three hours! Even with the 3-hour block, the first hour and 15 minutes they are their parent&#8217;s problem and the next hour and 45 mintues is broken into class, sharing time, music time, and wandering aimlessly in the hall. We used to have a woman serving in the Primary who would constatly lament how it&#8217;s &#8220;impossible&#8221; for kids to survive the 3-hour block. But I see families doing it all the time. Now&#8230; Do the Primary leaders survive as well? I don&#8217;t think so. ;)</p>
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		<title>By: JA Benson</title>
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		<dc:creator>JA Benson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:01:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ARJ #23 I  completely agree that and commiting the poor kids to one hour in cell block c. That is what those tiny cinderblock no window classrooms remind me of. 
Danithew #26 The nursey is great. They just need to extend it for a few more years. How many early childhood programs do you know that has a three-six  year olds sitting still for 3 hours??!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ARJ #23 I  completely agree that and commiting the poor kids to one hour in cell block c. That is what those tiny cinderblock no window classrooms remind me of.<br />
Danithew #26 The nursey is great. They just need to extend it for a few more years. How many early childhood programs do you know that has a three-six  year olds sitting still for 3 hours??!!</p>
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		<title>By: Left Field</title>
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		<dc:creator>Left Field</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My ward is the only unit in the building, and we have always met at 10:00.  A year or two ago, they dissolved our old stake and our ward moved into a new stake.  The new stake president wanted all the wards to start at 9:00 unless there were two wards in the building.  Allegedly, the rationale for having everyone meet at the same time was that stake visitors would more easily be able to get from one building to another if they had assignments in multiple wards. (I know: that doesn&#039;t make any sense, especially since the buildings in the stake are 0.5-1.0 hours apart).  

Our ward didn&#039;t want to change, and the bishop dragged his feet for a year, but we finally had to make the change this week.  About a year ago, I overheard a member of the stake presidency tell the bishop that the handbook directed that meetings had to start at 9:00 if there was only one unit in the building.  The bishop clearly didn&#039;t believe him.  Attendance seemed to be a bit down this week; we&#039;ll see what the long-range trend is.

It&#039;s popular to complain about the three-hour block, but those old enough to remember where they were when Neil and Buzz walked on the moon will also remember that Priesthood, Sunday School, and Sacrament meeting usually each required a separate trip to the church (except on fast Sunday), and that Sacrament meeting was an hour and a half.  That&#039;s not such a big deal if you live three blocks from the church, but if you drive 30 minutes to church, that&#039;s three hours just driving.  I could do with the three hour block being shortened, but I sure don&#039;t want to go back to the six-and-a-half hour block.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My ward is the only unit in the building, and we have always met at 10:00.  A year or two ago, they dissolved our old stake and our ward moved into a new stake.  The new stake president wanted all the wards to start at 9:00 unless there were two wards in the building.  Allegedly, the rationale for having everyone meet at the same time was that stake visitors would more easily be able to get from one building to another if they had assignments in multiple wards. (I know: that doesn&#8217;t make any sense, especially since the buildings in the stake are 0.5-1.0 hours apart).  </p>
<p>Our ward didn&#8217;t want to change, and the bishop dragged his feet for a year, but we finally had to make the change this week.  About a year ago, I overheard a member of the stake presidency tell the bishop that the handbook directed that meetings had to start at 9:00 if there was only one unit in the building.  The bishop clearly didn&#8217;t believe him.  Attendance seemed to be a bit down this week; we&#8217;ll see what the long-range trend is.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s popular to complain about the three-hour block, but those old enough to remember where they were when Neil and Buzz walked on the moon will also remember that Priesthood, Sunday School, and Sacrament meeting usually each required a separate trip to the church (except on fast Sunday), and that Sacrament meeting was an hour and a half.  That&#8217;s not such a big deal if you live three blocks from the church, but if you drive 30 minutes to church, that&#8217;s three hours just driving.  I could do with the three hour block being shortened, but I sure don&#8217;t want to go back to the six-and-a-half hour block.</p>
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		<title>By: Bookslinger</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bookslinger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 22:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John,
  You can fit 3 units in the relatively new small-footprint urban chapels, like this one: 
https://secure.lds.org/units/home/1,9781,600-1-7-226440,00.html?

They have one inner-city ward, one spanish-speaking branch, and one YSA branch meeting there.

Danithew:   I feel the Spirit so much in my current ward that I usually get knocked out like Lamoni and his father, and that&#039;s why it looks like I&#039;m sleeping.  I try to wake up, and when I do, the Spirit knocks me out again, so that&#039;s why it looks like I&#039;m &quot;nodding.&quot;  And I have low blood sugar, too.  That&#039;s my story, and I&#039;m sticking to it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John,<br />
  You can fit 3 units in the relatively new small-footprint urban chapels, like this one:<br />
<a href="https://secure.lds.org/units/home/1,9781,600-1-7-226440,00.html?" rel="nofollow">https://secure.lds.org/units/home/1,9781,600-1-7-226440,00.html?</a></p>
<p>They have one inner-city ward, one spanish-speaking branch, and one YSA branch meeting there.</p>
<p>Danithew:   I feel the Spirit so much in my current ward that I usually get knocked out like Lamoni and his father, and that&#8217;s why it looks like I&#8217;m sleeping.  I try to wake up, and when I do, the Spirit knocks me out again, so that&#8217;s why it looks like I&#8217;m &#8220;nodding.&#8221;  And I have low blood sugar, too.  That&#8217;s my story, and I&#8217;m sticking to it.</p>
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		<title>By: danithew</title>
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		<dc:creator>danithew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 22:11:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ARJ, I was in the ward nursery for awhile and honestly, the children (18 months to 3 years old) seemed to have it easy.  Lots of toys to play with, snacks and parents were never all that far away.

Lessons were maybe 2 or 3 minutes long.

Maybe you&#039;re talking about the older kids?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ARJ, I was in the ward nursery for awhile and honestly, the children (18 months to 3 years old) seemed to have it easy.  Lots of toys to play with, snacks and parents were never all that far away.</p>
<p>Lessons were maybe 2 or 3 minutes long.</p>
<p>Maybe you&#8217;re talking about the older kids?</p>
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		<title>By: John Mansfield</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Mansfield</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 21:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When block meetings started, I think the three wards in my building met from 8:00 to 11:00, from 11:30 to 2:30, and from 3:00 to 6:00.  I don&#039;t think overlapping blocks had occurred to anyone yet.  Every month or two, there would be some Sunday evening function of the ward or stake that would cause the 3:00 to 6:00 block to end early at 5:30.

The newer building the Saints in my old neighborhood now attend is much smaller and only houses two wards (and is half a mile from my old house instead of a mile and a half).  I suspect it is recognized by the central administration that housing more than two wards in a building doesn&#039;t really work unless the building and parking lot are quite large.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When block meetings started, I think the three wards in my building met from 8:00 to 11:00, from 11:30 to 2:30, and from 3:00 to 6:00.  I don&#8217;t think overlapping blocks had occurred to anyone yet.  Every month or two, there would be some Sunday evening function of the ward or stake that would cause the 3:00 to 6:00 block to end early at 5:30.</p>
<p>The newer building the Saints in my old neighborhood now attend is much smaller and only houses two wards (and is half a mile from my old house instead of a mile and a half).  I suspect it is recognized by the central administration that housing more than two wards in a building doesn&#8217;t really work unless the building and parking lot are quite large.</p>
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		<title>By: bbell</title>
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		<dc:creator>bbell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 21:22:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I prefer 8:30-11:30 or the traditional 9-12.  I could also get on board with 10AM./  Afternoon church sucks.  esp if you have a stake calling.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I prefer 8:30-11:30 or the traditional 9-12.  I could also get on board with 10AM./  Afternoon church sucks.  esp if you have a stake calling.</p>
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