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“That Young Men, their leaders, and their parents might come to value that program more than the Scout program which, let’s face it, isn’t a Church program.” This is only half-true. The Church does not run BSA or maintain scouting programs in every country, but where it does support scouting, the Church is a chartering organization that provides leadership and members to scout troops. Insofar as the Church has adopted Scouting as a way to help YM grow, Scouting is a Church program. This really isn’t just a matter of semantics. Even if YM aren’t advancing in Scouting ranks, they’re participating in Scouting if they’re participating in the non-Sunday Church activities. The patches and awards are the least valuable part of the Scouting program, but there is some value with recognition of achievement. As long as the focus of Personal Progress does not become recognition or awards, I don’t mind that they add stickers, medallions, or whatever. Some girls will care about the stuff and it may motivate them to do good. |
My older boys worked through the Primary’s Faith in God pamphlet. When they were done with that—something they had put many hours into over many, many months—the follow-up was pretty anticlimatic for them. I think the recognition from the church consisted of a smile from the Primary president. Sure, my ten-year-olds should have realized the value of their accomplishment was the doing of it and not have aspired to the honors and trinkets of men. And just think of the money that financially strapped school districts and colleges could save by eliminating graduation ceremonies and any other recognitions of accomplishment. |
The only frame of reference I have with this, ESO, is when I was 9 and went to church, entirely on my own. I had a nice Primary teacher and a “bandelo.” This was important and fun to me. Sarah got her young womanhood award mostly by doing stuff she’d have done anyway. And she was proud of it. James’ circle of friends were pretty big scouters and it was fun to them; Jared, not so much. It does seem like busy work in a way (anybody remember the goal booklets we got in Relief Society?). What I’d recommend is cheering on the girls for whom this is fun and cautioning the parents and peers not to place a person’s value on it. To relax and allow their child to just be, if that’s their goal. My middle husband, the bum, was an Eagle Scout, RM, and hd didn’t have half the character of my other husbands. Arthur Bishop, who was put to death for the molestation and murder of can’t remember how many little boys in the 80′s was an RM and Eagle Scout. It works the same for the girls. You’re in a tough position, but also in one where you can make the important point that the kids need to be judged on “the content of their character, not the volume of their badges” to paraphrase Martin Luther King. |
I forget where this comes from, but: “When achievement is measured, progress accelerates. When the measurements are reported, progress accelerates even more.” If you don’t set goals, and measure and report progress, then you don’t advance. From The Game of Work — How to Enjoy Work As Much As Play by Charles A. Coonradt: “In the absence of clearly defined goals, we are forced to concentrate on activity and ultimately become enslaved by it.” It goes on to say: “Most businesses pay for attendance when they need to be paying for performance and productivity … Most business people don’t keep score; they don’t measure performance as effectively as they do in recreation.†Therefore, the checklists and awards are just a methodology of measuring and reporting. |
Interesting thoughts. In my stake, just under 1/3 of girls finish all of Personal Progress. Most seem to find it a huge bother. There has definitely been renewed interest when they see the ribbons. And really, the only new bits and baubles are the ribbons, the optional bookmark that goes with the ribbons. The rest of the stuff has just been redesigned. Oh, and every new YW is supposed to receive a gold torch logo necklace. The old colorful one seemed to be considered, well, old. I’m hoping maybe we can get 1/2 the girls to try. And if takes ribbons, I’m okay with that. And how do you get to that site from lds.org? I’ve tried and can’t navigate there. I really want it to be legit, because that idea is a huge step forward. |
adam e–I realize that BSA IS YM in North America, sort of (because aren’t there Mutual nights that are specifically non-scouts? Like joint activities, at least) but the Scouting program is not a religious one, although it does include some religion. John Mansfield–I can really understand the desire for recognition for primary kids, but Personal Progress goes up to 18 years-old; I am not sure stickers are developmentally appropriate. annegb–again, I understand your desire as a 9-year-old, but these are (sometimes) jaded teens we are dealing with–I don’t think (not very attractive) jewelry is going to cut it for your average 16 year old. All youth leaders, I think, try really hard to balance an encouraging emphasis on programs with actual worth of souls messaging. Bookslinger–thanks for the quotes–like I said, it is a balance that Youth leaders have to find. Ahna–yeah, I think Beehives may feel like the ribbons etc were fun, but will it really carry them through their YW years? I doubt it. As for the website, I assume you mean the PP one? It seems it is not quite up and running–there is only an intro video there, not the other features yet. I am guessing it will be easy to find once it is ready for Prime Time. |
Bookslinger, |
Sam, but the basic progress that the church wants young women (and young men) to go through is not some individually discovered/invented thing for each stake/ward/individual. This isn’t trail-blazing territory like post-grad University level research. Yeah, penicillin and Lexan were discovered by accident. But on the other hand, Edison had an invention factory, and the discovery of tungsten for the best lightbulb filament came through methodically plodding through a very long list of substances. Yeah, there need to be dreamers going off into unexplored territory. But that’s not the subject of the thread. |
I think if you’re in a personal progress funk, you should just start working on something from it. Look over it, find one you like/don’t hate, maybe even pray about, maybe even pray to have a stronger testimony of it. PP is a great opportunity for moms and daughters to work together and become closer-something extremely important, especially in those teenage years. Right now I have lots of sisters eager to mentor a yw through personal progress, it’s really impressed me. I think that will go a long way to integrating the yw into RS when the time comes. |
HeidiAnn, I’m so glad you brought up the mentoring idea. I think this is the real change in Personal Progress. The rest is just window dressing. Mothers working with their daughters can work very well for some, especially new Beehives, but not for all. Obviously not every teen wants to spend time with her mom. But every YW, as President Dalton has said, deserves and needs a one-on-one mentoring relationship with a loving woman. It’s a stroke of genius to open PP to all women. This would have helped some Laurels I knew a few years ago who were close, but couldn’t quite pull it off before they were 19. Without the deadline, they would have finished. And they would have loved to mentor a younger YW. |
Off topic, but along the lines of putting church “work” (not right word) online… The other day I thought, wouldn’t it be great if there was this web-based journal platform where you could type your entries from any networked computer in the world and have it available wherever you go? (never to get lost, stolen, ruined, etc) Then I realized we have those things called blogs… then I got uncomfortable about putting a journal online because it changes how I would write. I’d feel I’d have to defend or qualify things more and would have more of a vested interest in protecting my writing, rather than just writing my thoughts. Then I realized my writing will still be judged that way by decendants, without my chance at elaborating, because I can never say it all in a complete way that reflects the entire truth. So I gave up. |
For the record, these were the things I hated about scouting. I’ve always been more of a big-picture person than a micro-managing goal setter. Most of this sort of thing seemed like nothing more than busy work to me. And I think it’s gotten much worse since I left scouting. I’m not looking forward to my kids’ participation in these programs. Not at all. |
ESO (6) If done properly, even combined activities are “scouting” events. In 2013, the Church will celebrate its 100-year partnership with the Boy Scouts of America. The Church is the oldest chartering organization of the BSA and the largest single sponsor of scouting units. From the beginning the scouting movement has been a religious movement (there are statements to this effect from Lord Baden-Powell). The purpose of scouting is not 1) having boys earn their Eagle, 2) learning to tie knots, or even 3) getting to go unshowered for a week at camp… The purpose of scouting, according to to the BSA is to prepare young men (and young women who are 14-20 and participate in the Venturing program) “to make moral and ethical decisions throughout their lives.” The methods that the BSA uses to achieve this goal vary depending on which scouting program you’re talking about (Scout Troop, Varsity Team, or Venturing Crew) in order to fit the age-specific needs of the boys (and girls) who participate in each program. While there are many shortcomings with the way scouting is run in the Church – the first among them being an overemphasis on advancement (you must earn your Eagle at all costs…) and the second being uncommitted, untrained and untenured adults. But when executed properly, scouting is the leadership laboratory for the Aaronic Priesthood. It is in scouting that the young men learn to implement the principles learned on Sunday and it is in scouting that they get the foundation to teach them how to lead the Church. One of the methods of Boy Scouting is the “outdoors.” The idea is to get young men out of their comfort zone and into the wilderness. This is often where a clearing to the young man’s soul is opened and where an in-tune leader can help him commune with the spirit. Look through the scriptures, it is full of deeply formative spiritual experiences that happen in the outdoors (in the “wilderness”, on a “mountaintop”, in the “desert”, in a “forest”, in a “quiet grove of trees.”). Duty to God is a recognition program, not an activity program. Most of the DTG requirements are done by the boy alone or with his family. It is intended to bring a boy closer to his family. While some DTG requirements will be fulfilled in the course of scouting activities, DTG is not intended to replace scouting where scouting is used by the Church. |
I think that extrinsic recognition is almost as important as intrinsic. I do think that being able to develop self-worth through achievement is critical to social development, and I also think that being able to checklist one’s way to an ultimate goal gives a scout or YW a path or direction to an ultimate goal. Personally, I am the first to revile “jumping through hoops” to meet arbitrary requirements and receive recognition, but I do see a lot of value in a certain degree of conformity. Finally, I think much of the compulsory “you must earn your Eagle at all costs” attitude is from parents and is a valid method for instilling a number of good behaviors and attitudes. One of which is seeking just enough recognition by performing to others’ expectations, and hopefully taking from that the ability to have reasonable expectations of others and recognize their achievement. |
“and it is in scouting that they get the foundation to teach them how to lead the Church. ” I’ll leave the part out about the Lord leading the church, etc. because I know that’s not what you meant and I don’t want to read too much into what you say. And I’m as pro scouting at the next guy but I cringed at that statement. I really hope that the Lord does not rely on BSA to teach young priesthood holders how to lead the church. Especially considering… well, you know most Aaronic Priesthood holders are not involved in the Boy Scouts of America. I can just see Pres. Uchtdorf now… wondering how he’ll ever get to be an effective church leader without having the blessing of the BSA. /end snark Let’s just leave it at scouts is one way to help kids become leaders and develop themselves. But I’m pretty sure being part of an effective priesthood quorum is the best way to prepare to be a leader in a priesthood quorum. |
And my comment made me wonder… in an ever growing international church, is there a place for BSA in the church program? At what point will it become a relic? If at some point 80% of the young men in the church never have the chance to become scouts, why should it be such a huge part of the organization in the US? I think the writing is on the wall that at some point the important principles of BSA will need to be integrated into YM, and the rest could be done away with. After all, it’s the principles and education gained from the process of scouting that’s important, not the fact that they are a part of an organization that wears brown shirts and olive shorts. |
I was bored out of my mind with scouting in my youth, and dropped out of it in middle school. If our YM activities had just been thinly-veiled scouting activities, I probably wouldn’t have attended them, either. For boys who (like me) have no interest in the whole scouting rigamarole, how does that affect Church activity now that YM activities ARE scouting activities? |
Chris, The Scouting movement is in many countries. Boy Scouts started in England, not the US. And for those countries who don’t have official scouting organizations, there’s nothing to hinder church leaders from organizing activities that parallel things from official scouting manuals. Call it “apostate” scouting, thought not “the one true Scouting”, but it would be better than nothing. Kind of like a man picking up a Bible, reading it, picking out some things he likes, and he starts his own church. A man could pick up a Scouting handbook, and say “Hey guys, let’s do this, it looks cool.” Not “official”, but it could still be fun, and fulfill needs. (As long as they don’t claim to be “true” Scouts. :-) And if overseas Areas and Stakes want to officially sponsor scouting, like they do in the US, and be the first in their country to do so, they could petition the international body of Scouting (whatever it’s called) and getting “official” Boy Scouts started in that country. Hey, you don’t have have to be an official “Boy Scout” to go camping, do good deeds, and learn skills. |
I’m not disagreeing on that, but now you’re into “nice to do” territory, not “this is what the church says you should do with YM territory.” Most of the membership is outside of the US. I’m assuming that means most of the youth is outside of the US. And if that’s not the case, it will be soon enough. Most countries don’t have scouting. If it’s part of the foundation of church leadership, Pres. Uchtdorf as well as many general authorities are lacking a firm foundation? Scouting is very good and I’ll have my kids take part in it for certain. But it is not serving a large percentage of our young priesthood and telling their leaders, “well if you want to do it, you can petition to organize one or do it on your own” is not really a good answer when most local leaders in international wards probably haven’t even heard of scouting. Or if they have only through cultural references and would know little about it. |
I guess Scouts is more interesting than YW in the bloggernaccle ;) . #13 said this: The thing is: Personal Progress IS a recognition program, not an activity program. Most of PP requirements are done by the GIRL alone or with family. It is intended to bring a GIRL closer to family (and God). While some PP requirements will be fulfilled in the course of Young Women activities…. You see where I am going. The YW actually have to decide on what activities they want to do and do them. We like them to have a purpose, and sometimes the activities can fulfill parts of a value experience, but sometimes it is just something the girls want to learn or do, and sometimes the activities are planned to support a specific YW in need. Are you suggesting that YM are not equally as capable and need a handbook of activities to keep them occupied with worthy pursuits? I don’t believe that. In our Stake, we were on a little kick to help our youth recognize that they could really fulfill DTG and PP goals quite easily if they attended Church activities: for each activity on the advertisement of it we noted which DTG and PP goals the activity fell under. It was pretty easy to put every activity somewhere within the program, but I am personally not a fan of insisting that all activities MUST fulfill a PP goal. To me, organizing Church Youth activities around Scouts is as arbitrary as deciding that all of our Youth should participate in a bowling league or become competent violinists. It is right up some kids’ ally. Other will run screaming. Can you learn a lot from years of violin practice and performing? Yeah, that dedication is really worth something. Does it bring you closer to God? I guess it could. Would we ever consider making it the Youth Program? Absolutely not. chris #16–it is my personal opinion that the relationship between BSA and LDS Church still exists because of President Monson. When super-Scouters are no longer important GAs, I think there will likely be a re-evaluation. Frankly, LDS troops are important to BSA (imagine if the Church was no longer paying all that money for chartering, etc–in many areas of the US, LDS troops are the lifeblood of BSA), and BSA is important to some LDS (see testimony of Lord Baden-Powell above), but I am not sure the marriage will last forever. Like I said, I have nothing against Scouting if it is a kids’ personal interest. I don’t think it is a great Church program. Jota outlined some of the reasons LDS troops are often sub-par in comment #13. Those are the very reasons why, if my kids (boys AND girls) are interested in scouting, I will likely involve them in non-LDS troops. The point that several have made that the PARENTS attitude toward “achieving your Eagle” is problematic is sound. I guess for YW, we just wish the parents cared a tiny bit about PP–I have not known any to go overboard with it; most ignore the program completely. Maybe the ribbons will get their attention. |
ESO (20) Point taken with respect to DTG and PP. You asked – “Are you suggesting that YM are not equally as capable and need a handbook of activities to keep them occupied with worthy pursuits? I don’t believe that.” I am absolutely not saying that. In a well-run scouting program the boys do ALL the work and make ALL the decisions about their activities. There are more helps and guidelines with respect to the activities for the deacon-age YM leaders (in the Troop) than there are for the teacher-age YM leaders (in the Team) than there are for the priest-age YM leaders (in the Crew). And there is a progressive level of responsibility and leadership undertaken at each level. Chris (15) – I appreciate you not taking umbridge with my use of the phrase “lead the Church” since you recognize that I was in no way saying that Christ isn’t the “head” of the Church. But I might disagree with you a bit. A steward may not be THE leader, but he is still A leader. I consider President Monson, or my Bishop, or my EQ president, or my RS president, a “leader” in the church and it is perfectly appropriate to say that a “leader” in the church leads the unit over which he/she has stewardship. There’s nothing wrong with the statement “President Monson leads the church in accordance with the direction received from Christ through the spirit.” Christ is the “head” of the church, but he doesn’t always “lead” it. I’ve never seen Jesus lead a sacrament meeting, lead a service project, or lead a YM basketball team to victory. It all depends on how you want to use the term. I know, now I’m the one being snarky, but you did kind of start it. You also said, “But I’m pretty sure being part of an effective priesthood quorum is the best way to prepare to be a leader in a priesthood quorum.” I think it is important to distinguish between how scouting is often used in the Church and how scouting is supposed to be used in the Church. Used properly, scouting should be more effective at leadership training than simply being part of a priesthood quorum simply for the fact that scouting gives more opportunity to more boys to lead in more circumstances than the priesthood quorum. |
The Church is the oldest chartering organization of the BSA and the largest single sponsor of scouting units. A relatively meaningless and misleading statistic. It’s true only because the Church generally registers a unit for each ward, even if this results in lots of small, weak units. The Methodists actually have more Scouts, I believe. But they have big, well-run, well-organized troops. |
Chris- blogs can be private…at blogspot.com you can change your settings to private so no one can see your blog but you. I have a ton of blogs to help me stay organized…some for home decorating pictures, recipes, etc. Its great and you don’t use up your hard drive space! :) I have always thought that Scouts is a distraction from the gospel. The YW activities and classes are so focused on the gospel, homemaking, mothering, etc…and the boys play dodge ball or do scout stuff. I wish they’d get a divorce already…our youth are too busy as it is. (and I am a cub scout den leader mom) I was also *this* close to getting my PP done. Only one project left, but then I graduated high school and got a social life instead. :P But honestly, the jewelry wasn’t that big of an incentive to stick with it. They are pretty ugly. I think its neat they are putting it online. I HATE the stupid pink pages though. BTW, scouting is also online now. |
I’d just be happy if our ward YW would actually acknowledge new girls arriving into YW. My daughter is almost 13, and we had to order her PP materials online ourselves. I’ve spent the last couple of months making myself an expert on the PP program, just like I’ve had to do with the Cub Scout program. |
“When achievement is measured, progress accelerates. When the measurements are reported, progress accelerates even more.†That’s a Monson quote, by the way. |
“And that’s an order maggots!” |
What’s with the bots, is the spam filter being left unattended at MM? |
jjohnsen–hey! don’t call our commenters bots! ;) |
HAaha – ya jjohnsen! We are people – if you prick us do we not bleed? If you give us books, do we not read? When making bread, do we not knead? That’s from the bible dude! |
Scouts is fine for those interested in scouting and seems like a better use of an adolescent’s time than video games, but it isn’t a religious program. And it reminds me of my nephew his name is shem he is a 3 year old at that time he joining the scout event.He got 3 ribbons and I’m proud of him. He knows the boys scout salute he so cute with his uniform. That why we joining him we want him to be responsible,helpful, mingle and have a lot of friends,Thanks for reminding me of my nephew scout days. More power to your site! G-d bless ;-) |
““When achievement is measured, progress accelerates. When the measurements are reported, progress accelerates even more.†|
When I was an elementary student I think I enjoyed attending the activities. Camping for me is very memorable experience. |