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No. We have a trunk-or-treat on Saturday. But we will enable trick-or-treating by having candy and our lights on. |
We’re in Virginia. A bunch of LDS families are getting together and going trick-or-treating together. Why not? It’s a family activity. |
In VA as well…definitely going. |
Adam e – UT or ex-UT? So 3-0 for trick or treating on Sunday on the East Coast |
I feel that the Sabbath is the Sabbath, regardless of what social holidays fall on it. As such, in our family Sabbath observation gets priority. I would rather bastardize a man-made holiday than bastardize the Lord’s day. Regarding the whole ‘family activity’ rationalization – Going to a theme park can be a family activity — does that make it OK to do on a Sunday? Going grocery shopping can be a family activity — does that make it OK to do on a Sunday? Going water skiing can be a family activity… well, you see my point. Just because something is an activity enjoyed by the whole family does not make it Sabbath-appropriate. Sabbath activities should not only be family-centered, but Christ-centered as well. Location – Midwest born and raised, wouldn’t live in Utah if you paid me. |
Sorry, one more comment I forgot to add. The whole discussion reminds me of something an Institute instructor once said. “You can tell who’s on the Lord’s side by where they are on Super Bowl Sunday.” |
I’m with Palad….and in our community, where we LDS are in a *decided* minority, our town (as are most towns in this state, it turns out) are having the “recognized” trick-or-treat night on Saturday. Ward party/trunk-or-treat is tonight. |
Doesn’t the sabbath end when the sun goes down? It does in my family. |
Hey Palad, why the animosity baby? What’d I ever do to you? |
In Jacksonville, Illinois the whole town celebrates Halloween over two nights. The night before and the actual Halloween night everyone hands out candy. It is so the out-of-town kids from smaller villages (under 500 people) can trick or treat in their community and still score from the surrounding areas. It was confounding the first year we lived there, but we saw the advantages for Mormon families who didn’t want to deal with #5. Sheesh! |
I’m also in Virginia and we are not going and not handing out treats. We took the kids to our ward’s Saturday “trunk or treat” and told them that would be it. |
I will also add that I am in no way judging those who chose to trick or treat this Sunday. We just are not very fun people. |
Non Utah. We will attend our Ward Trunk-or-Treat on Saturday. And then will self-righteously turn off the porch light on Sunday and sit inside and remind ourselves how awesome we are for not associating with our neighbors. But I’m not bitter. Nooooo . . . (Can you tell who won this argument in my household?!) |
I’m in Utah. We’re planning on Sunday. I seriously don’t see how saying, “Hi” to the neighbors is inappropriate. We’ll see how they react. |
While we’re at it, man was made for the Sabbath, right? |
While I have lived in communities (not Mormon ones) who have decided to celebrate on Saturday the 30th, ours isn’t. When we lived abroad, the American community circulated addresses of families who would have candy and we drove around to hit maybe 6-10 houses; I suppose LDS families could do that sort of a thing on an alternative night if they wanted to. As for my family this year (in NY), our ward (2 combined, actually) will have the trunk-or-treat on Saturday (and why any ward did their Halloween activity last week or on a week night this year, I have no idea). For my children, who are young, that is it for this year. For one thing, they have an early bedtime, and trick-or-treating is an unusually late night for them anyway. Plus, it will be 45 degrees as a high temperature for the day–after dark, worse. Trust me: they will have more than enough candy after the Church activity (in fact, their plastic pumpkins still have candy from last year). In years to come, if they feel strongly about T-or-Ting on a Sunday and can make a decent argument for it, I will consider it. I won’t however, answer the door this year. I am putting candy on my porch. Does that make me a grinch? |
@ 6 Palad, assuming your institute teacher was being serious, he is a dope and a real bore. And, yes almost every item on your list is fine with Sabbath observance, imo, except the grocery shopping example b/c that’s silly-nobody enjoys grocery shopping on any day and to drag the whole family borders on cruel and unusual punishment and would be even dumber than your institute teacher. A better way to find out who’s on the Lord’s side is to see who voluntarily chooses to travel on Sunday. Sabbath flying requires a lot of people to work: pilots, flight attendants, baggage handlers, mechanics, air traffic controllers and on and on. I suspect the late Sunday evening flights to SLC are filled with returning GAs from their various weekend assignments. Throw in Area Authority Seventies and there are lots of Sunday flights taking Church leaders to their homes after a weekend of service. Oh, the horror! (I’m being facetious. I believe GAs and AA70s are on the Lord’s side. Goofy institute teachers I’m less sure about.) And, how in the world does President Uchtdorf justify voluntarily and enthusiastically entering a profession he knew would require regular Sabbath work? It’s not like airline pilots are akin to police officers and fire fighters who we absolutely need to be available and working on the Sabbath. We plan on trick or treating but I’m trying to get out of it so I can stay home and continue my Sabbath worship by watching the Sunday night football game and game 4 of the World Series. Thanks to the miracle of a dual tuner TIVO, I can watch both simultaneaously and in |
We will do both the Trunk-er treat and the real one. Personally I am not bothered by it because we will be giving out Candy and I think it is a fine degree of torture to tell our kids no but everyone else yes. Once every seven years means we will only do it once more with one kid. Mind you when we lived in Canada’s version of UTAH we went out on Saturday with everyone else. |
Because of a quirk involving leap year it will be more than ten years before Halloween falls on a Sunday again. |
Given that Game 4 of the World Series coincides with trick-or-treating, I don’t expect much action in the neighborhood. And my children are free to go out if they want. Our ward’s trunk-or-treat coincides with Game 3 so I don’t expect much attendance either… |
oh then all good cause by then my youngest will be 13 |
Seattle. Ward party plus trunk or treat on Saturday. We’ll go around to the neighbors on Sunday. |
san diego and kids under seven. school carnival and trunk-or-treat tonight. tomorrow, after church, we’re making little crafts and pumpkin bread for family, eating some chili, and taking the gifts to the neighbors right next-door, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and cousins. with such little ones, we don’t run door-to-door anyway, and our neighborhood doesn’t “do” t-or-t (houses far apart, no sidewalk, BUSY street). |
jks–I am not sure if that was pointed at me, or if other people on the thread said that they weren’t opening the door. That has nothing to do with Halloween on Sunday and everything to do with not particularly liking Halloween, begging for candy, or entitled people. My neighborhood is a major target for people who live in the city and don’t want to trick-or-treat there, so these are not acquaintances of mine. They are people who come to my neighborhood for free candy and do not reciprocate in their own. They are also about half adults who take candy. I hate that. So, I’ll provide the candy, but I don’t particularly want to watch the gluttony. That’s just me. I actually might not answer the door if it was my hometeachers or other people who I did not expect and was busy doing something else. I am not a big fan of the drop-by. |
ESO – sorry, when you said “this year” I assumed it was a Sabbath reason to be unfriendly, not a multi-faceted reason. It just struck me oddly that anyone would consider it appropriate Sabbath Holiness to be unfriendly. We don’t get over kill in our neighborhood, I guess I can imagine feeling grinchy if I did. |
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LOL JKS–I am just generally unfriendly, not Sabbath-specific. I can understand the appeal of dropping by, and if my house were cleaner more often, I’d probably be more receptive, but at this point in my life, it causes major stress. I am, however, guilty of inflicting it on others, in which case I am totally fine leaving the treat on the doorstep if they don’t answer. |
We trunk-or-treated last night and trick-or-treated tonight. I’m obviously weird, but I get warm fuzzies from trick-or-treating. Getting out on the streets with my kids in the dark, knocking on neighbors’ doors, and watching the faces of older neighbors light up when they see the kids is totally worth it for me. There was more than one neighbor who thanked us for coming. I’m glad we didn’t stay home. |
It worked out perfectly for us. I took zachary out Saturday night because we had a family birthday party to go to on Sunday. We went before dark too, and a couple of houses gave us Handfuls of candy because they didn’t think anybody else would come. It was a really nasty night. There were a couple of snotty houses that had signs out that said “too early. come back tomorrow.” |
Snotty houses? Really? Take a look in the mirror to see some great snotty. |
My issue was less about it being the sabbath and more about it being a school night. There are years of Halloween that we can’t avoid school nights, but when it falls on a Sunday we can. Ours in the midwest was on Sunday. Some in our ward went, some didn’t. Not a big deal. |
wow – a mix of views on this… We too had a great time going out on Sunday and it was a nice family activity. Like Amira, I love the interaction with neighbors and seeing the mutual joy the kids and the people handing out candy get. It is a strange tradition though…. |
What is a trunk or treat? |