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Until her husband is elected, she really doesn’t. Only the president’s wife needs to be able to relate to the majority of Americans. Wife of a presidential candidate will not be mentioned in history books, nor will she be remembered 20 years from now unless she gets involved with politics. Wife of the president gets mentioned if she helps feed the starving children. |
You’d get my vote with an answer like that:) |
I’m thinking that Michael Dukakis ran about 20 years ago and his wife, Kitty, was made famous for some mental problems. I think she may have a drug addiction. I don’t remember the details, but I remember her. And other wives. You may very well find yourself remembering Ann Romney in 20 years. Of course you don’t remember Kitty Dukakis! The wife of the president can be hugely influential and also influence a campaign. Betty Ford, what a jewel! Nancy Reagan, not so much! Who were the losing candidate’s wives, let me think. Well Ford lost. Reagan ran against Carter, whose wife, Rosalyn, was pretty unpopular, although I respected her. Who the heck did he run against for his second term? I cannot remember. Um. Cindy McCain? Avoided jail, wrongly, I think. Easy to say one will forget something that happened twenty years ago when one is about that age. I remember being 20 and wanting to be a person who could say I remembered something happened 25 years ago, which at the time was a lifetime. Now, it’s nothing. Many things that happened 25 years ago seem like yesterday. Now it’s bugging me who ran against Bush second term. |
I’m a dope—John Kerry, of course, ran against “W.” Now HIS wife was a trip! She was such a rick snob she thought she was above the whole process. See this is what drives me nuts! I never heard a Democrat bugging John Kerry about that, or anybody complain that Gore would suck because he was rich! The hypocrisy is amazing–on both parties. Don’t get me started on that threadjack. Bob Dole ran against Clinton–I voted for him. I adored his wife, Elizabeth and thought she’d be a good president. Walter Mondale, I do not remember his wife. I do remember feeling sorry for him because it was pretty clear he didn’t have a chance of winning. Anyway, the wives” matter. |
You know, too, no action could have indicated a candidate was more out of touch than Obama’s fund raiser at Sarah Jessica’s house. Some advisor should have warned against having that editor (I can see her face) be in a commercial for it. Bad move. |
I wish I had something to contribute. I’ve been a hermit because I don’t like either party. I know, not my best move, but I just hate hearing well “this person is the devil”… I want to know the facts, but you don’t even get the facts from the candidates mouths. So… there. |
I totally agree about the fundraiser at Sarah Jessica Parker’s. |
You’ve said about everything in the comments Annegb. Nicely complete. |
I’m not sure middle class Americans have more empathy for people in poverty than rich Americans. Empathy is a talent as well as a learned skill. There are rich and poor alike that don’t care to cultivate empathy, and there are rich and poor alike that do work on being empathetic. Experience is a great teacher, but often you gain experience by exposing yourself to differences in general, not just particular circumstances. The Romneys are not sheltered, ignorant, stupid, or unaware that different people have different problems in life. While I can’t comment on whether they are particularly empathetic, you have not convinced me that their experiences in life have made them less empathetic than average. |
The fact that a reporter — any reporter — would even ask that question of the Romneys tells us not that the Romneys are out of touch and not empathetic but that they are widely perceived as such and in this case perception is just as important as reality. Honestly, what have they done since they began campaigning for the 2008 election to show that they are empathetic? |
Exactly, Ray. JKS, I have no doubt that they are kind and caring people who are good neighbors and pay their bills. The perception—and I think part of this perception has been championed by the Obama team–is that they are cold rich people who are out to screw over the under-privileged in America. I realize it’s politics. But when confronted with the charge, they have, over and over, replied with “Ann has MS.” Her point about having a real marriage because she dealt with five screaming boys was insulting. I could deal pretty easily with five screaming boys in a million dollar house where I didn’t have to worry how I was going to feed and clothe them. And I like the Romneys. If I feel this way, a lot of people who are leaning toward the president are going to think that. So far, their efforts to counter that accusation have made the problem worse. I loved that she said she wanted to focus on at-risk youth. Why wait? She should have been focusing on that yesterday, loud and proud. They should visit and make a donation to Covenant House. JKS, I haven’t been trying to convince you they’re not empathetic good people. I’ve been trying to convince the Romney camp that they need a better way of getting that message out. I swear, their campaign is so poorly managed that it makes me wonder about how he’ll do as president. The convention did some good as far as highlighting his service but they need to do more, better. I could write better speeches and sound bites. |
“Honestly, what have they done since they began campaigning for the 2008 election to show that they are empathetic?” Ray, when did you stop beating your wife? |
Bill Clinton. Now there was an empath. Makes you wonder how men like Carter and Ford were ever national politicians. Or what became of the country that didn’t need it’s president to feel its citizens’ pains for them, but just run the government with a bit of “Go Team!” cheerleading as the nation’s captain. |
I bought into Clinton. I have extremely mixed emotions about him to this day. But he knew how to work the game of politics. I realized this morning that I wannt to wholeheartedly support Romney. He’s a good honest person and I believe a good businessman. He’s awkward and his innocence—naivete–ignorance?–of how to navigate this complicated world of American politics makes me nervous. Is he up to the job? It’s a legitimate concern. KLC. |
I saw something posted prior to the convention showing what the liberals pain Anne Romney as being and real situations in her life and the vast contrast. I do think First Ladies matter and have a gem of a book that talks about every First Lady(up until copyright date of book). Martha, Abigail, Dollie, Rose, Hillary(my parents wanted her to be President), etc really show the influence of the First Ladies. I have often wished Tipper could have filled the role and increased awareness of mental health issues and maybe there would be more parity in mental health treatment. |